On recent developments re: The Irish Residential Schools Abuse story, Statuary Funds, Cover-ups and a few words to the incoming Irish Government
To whom it may concern.
There are many problems that we as Survivors face, problems are individual and collective.
This means that there are individual solutions and collective solutions. It's not an either/or situation.
These problems are the after effects of the abuse we suffered, which are physical and psychological trauma.
The effects of not having been able to tell others, be they family, friends or support services about our experiences. Loneliness, isolation, fear.
The effects of denial or mitigation or dismissive-ness of our community when we do speak out. Anger, fear, isolation, paranoia.
The effects of holding our wounded-ness for so long, that we develop secondary psychological problems.
The effects of being unable to hold long term relationships, jobs and careers.
The effects of not being able to trust others.
The effects of knowing that the abuse was and is being covered up, the story and history being 'managed' to protect both Church and State and other bodies who held and hold responsibility.
The effects of knowing that abuse is still common, that others are being abused, even to this day, and that the roots of the abuse are not being addressed, and in spite of evidence and plenty of very good scientific understanding (out of which healthful practices have emerged to prevent further abuse) the media and State and Church still avoid promoting these learning’s.
None of these will be resolved by money alone.
They will be resolved by providing adequate support for:
Telling the truth : open forums to tell our stories, open forums to examine who abused, who cover-ed up and why they covered up; criminal prosecutions for all abusers, and detailed inquiries into the actions of all those who covered up, for whatever reason, so that the dynamics of cover-up are understood, so that 'good' people who cover-up understand the impacts of their actions and understand that they must not cover-up.
Providing for our health : by providing best possible health care, best possible community interaction and understanding of the issues and dynamics of abuse.
Providing for our sustenance : Pensions separate from all other benefits are a useful idea.
Prevention: This is REALLY important. Apart from child protection legislation with real teeth, there needs to be a wider understanding of the dynamics of abuse, within families, and within all situations where adults have responsibility and power over children. Schools, care systems, sports training, etc etc.....
There also needs to be a wider understanding of the dynamics of intergenerational trauma patterning, which is how adverse behaviour patterns are passed from generation to generation in spite of peoples best efforts as they 'cope' with the effects (above) of abuse without proper support or understanding.
For all of this there needs to be State Funding of appropriate organisations (led by Survivors, informed by Survivors) PLUS awards to individual Survivors, not as compensation or reparation, but as offers of genuine support, to nurture Survivors for what remains of our lives.
These are my thoughts on this at this time.
That ANYONE sees it thus - that they have something to lose - speaks volumes of the psychology of the inadequate responses to the abuse story.
There is still so much to do in all of this.
Kindest regards
Corneilius Crowley
London
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