Showing posts with label Power. Show all posts
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Sexual Violence and the survival of the Human Species. Epstein is existential.

"Sexual violence, especially of children, is not an otherwise perverse symptom of elite rule or empire - it is literally at the CENTER of how violence and domination is structured around the world." Harsha Walia 2026

This is 100% accurate.

Sexual Violence is unhealthy for our species and it is part of a behaviour set that is an existential problem for humanity as a whole

We need a very steady hand now to address this matter, a steady hand I have been writing about for 2 decades.

We do not need dramatics, we do not need sensationalisation or sentimentality, we do not need ourselves to become weaponised or terrorised.

We need to face the evidence set before us and act accordingly.

We need a solid base for rational solidarity.

I present two charts of anthropological data on the Social-Behavioural Characteristics of different kinds of societies, generated in the 1960s by James Prescott, drawing on the classification work of Textor et al.



Professor James Prescott is a scholar who has spent most of his career looking at human behavioural psychology, with a focus on how adults relate to a treat children, from an anthropological and mental health perspective.

Basic Anthropology.

These charts prepared by Professor Prescott show that there is a clear association between sexual violence and the existence of hierarchies of power, and of wealth. Wealth, in this context is to be understood as any resource that is concentrated in the hands of a minority, and thus controlled to maintain power over the majority.

Wealth-as-Power as political and economic systems occurs where a minority exploit a majority to extract resources and concentrate them and then weaponise those resources to maintain the systems of exploitation.

Exploitation always causes harm.

When the harmed dissent, concessions are offered to quieten the dissent, and went the harmed resist, violence is deployed to crush that resistance.

Maintaining Power.

An adult slapping a child to force the child to meet the adults perceived needs is the same dynamic as the USA Ruling Class deploying covert and overt warfare against another state to meet the perceived needs of the Ruling Class of the USA. It is of critical important that readers understand that Militarism is psychopathy institutionalised.

In biology, it is clear that every species that thrives presents a range of behaviours, behaviours which have to be in the majority of action, healthy for that species and healthy for the shared environment in which that species thrives.

There are no Alpha Male Wolves in Nature.

We know the story of the first 'proof' of Alpha Male behaviour - Adolescent Wolves studied in captivity, by L. David Mech, where those wolves presented hierarchically violent behaviour, and the assumption was made that this behaviour was normal wolf behaviour. 

Certain ideologically interested groups then promoted the narrative to affirm the naturalness of violent hierarchy amongst human males.

However when the same scientist decided a few years later to study wolves in the wild, he found a completely different set of behaviours that were egalitarian, as in the behaviour of a wolf family was modulated to nurture the entire group, with the different dynamics of each wolves behaviour fitting into the whole.

It turns out the behaviour of the adolescent wolves in captivity, each of whom was captured and separated from their family and then transported into captivity, a terrifying traumatising experience, to say the least, mirrored that of the prison system in the United States of America.

He has spent his entire career trying to undo the damage his assumptions caused. To this date, he has failed, not for want of trying, but because the prevailing systems of wealth-as-power dominance have taken every step to affirm their natural right to dominate, and to exercise the violence they do to maintain that dominance. 

Most adult males still believe in the Alpha Male falsehood. 

Even if they themselves are kind, decent, nurturing adult males.

Racism.

The ideology of Racialism and Racism is similarly based on false assumptions, drawn from The Bible and the story of the the Tribe of Ham.

The "Curse of Ham" is a misused biblical narrative (Genesis 9) where Noah curses his grandson Canaan to servitude, which was historically distorted by Jewish, Christian, and Islamic traditions to justify slavery and anti-Black racism. It falsely associated Ham’s descendants with Black Africans and skin color, despite no mention of race in the text.

This is well explained by Jacqueline Battalora in her book 'Birth of a White Nation'.

Thrivival is not mere survival.

It is abundantly clear that sexual violence is not healthy and that it cannot be accepted as part of normative or healthy human behaviour.

If it were, we as humans and as persons would have adapted to it, survivors would not present the wounds of traumatisation or the dysfunctional behavioural patterns associated with it.

Nobody adapts to being traumatised. We cope with it, some better than others, yet coping is not thriving.

The meaning of the Epstein Files.

The release of the Epstein Files is strategic - it is designed to make it impossible to form up neutral juries to adjudicate in criminal trials.

It is also being exploited to distract, to be used as a political weapon, and to erase the voices of Survivors who have already presented ample testimony under oath of their experiences, naming names.

What should have happened

What should have happened is that criminal indictments were issued for each case, arrests made, without bail (due to the seriousness of the crimes) and trials should have gone forwards.

The files should have been deployed to support those indictments, and when the accused would have been tried and convicted, the files then placed in the public domain.

We have ample evidence that every institution of Power adopts a defensive strategic and tactical stance when allegations of criminal abuse within the scope of the institutions activities - the objective is to evade accountability, retain status, image, wealth and Power irrespective of the costs to those harmed.

The manner in which The Catholic Church, The Protestant Church and others and various States and their Governments have addressed historical sexual violence against children within institutions of care that they have operated is instructive. Truth and Reconciliation processes, Statuary Inquires have all failed to address the issue in such manner as to educate society at large and thus prevent further Sexual Violence.

Survivors are all too well aware of the realities of evasion of full accountability, redress, honesty and healing and recovery.

It mirrors the lack of accountability for war crimes we are all witness to today. The two issues, sexual violence and warfare, are connected.

This is an existential issue for humanity as a whole.

I have been writing about this for two decades.
I am a Survivor of Sexual Violence and have survived extremes of Adult Physical and Psychological Violence perpetrated upon me as a child.
Sexual Violence is not healthy for our species.

Physical violence against children is not healthy for our species.

Psychological violence against children is not healthy for our species.
Sexual Violence and Militarism are part of the same behaviour set.
These two charts presented above indicate the clear association between adult violence against children and the emergence of hierarchically violent cultures, they are based on surveys of 57 different cultures, using a classification system for anthropological data generated by Textor et al in the 1960s.
Since the creation of these two charts a lot more evidence and data has emerged across a range of disciplines to expand on and confirm the basic insight laid out.
Anyone who is genuinely interested in stepping beyond dramatics, sentimentality and fear to address the issues of sexual violence and war fare ought to be well informed in the evidence base.






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Wealth-as-Power - a behaviour pattern institutionalised

The problem of Wealth-as-Power.

Empathy is The Resistance.


Christmess Song - a song of empathy as The Resistance and The Solution.
It speaks to determination rather than mere hope.
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"it's getting close to christmas christ! what a mess this world is in where will it end, where will i begin the gifts for ads are everywhere still the west will not share the wealth christ! what a mess this world is in our climates disrupted, people die just so we can drive smoothly by the lights go on, hip hip hooray goodwill to all on christmas day christ what a mess this world is in where will it end, where will i begin? it will only end when i begin it will only end when you begin it will only end when we begin the change, the change ......Imagine there's no countries it isn't hard to do no flags to kill or die for........ ......Imagine there's no billionaires, it isn't hard to do no poverty or pollution... it's getting close to christmas and the best give we could give would be the committment so that all could live live in dignity! living indignity! it's already started because I've begun it's already started because you've begun it's already started because we've begun the change, the change"

~ We, the ordinary people, the decent, kind, intelligent, warm hearted people of the so-called 'civilised world' must dig deep, dig into determination, set aside hope, because hope contains the seeds of failure...


What is Wealth-as-Power?

A minority group sitting above an exploited population extract wealth and weaponise that wealth to maintain their dominance over the exploited population, causing multiple avoidable harms and because Power is the drug, impunity is a necessity for continuation of the addiction.

The solution is to prevent wealth being accumulated and deployed as a political weapon that maintains poverty in order to make low pay seem more attractive than destitution. Low pay aka cheap labour aka the devaluing of a human beings hours is the very core of wealth extraction.

Bigotry as Terrorism

Because Wealth-as-Power deploys layers of social and class terrorism to maintain that shituation, they cannot be terrorised into sharing other their extracted wealth, other than to maintain the appearance of philantrophy as a carefully calibrated concession where they cede no real power.

Every bigotry is curated by Wealth-as-Power as a means to weaponise ordinary people against each other, a crucial step in preventing solidarity emerging across the population, a solidarity that is the only viable political, economic and cultural challenge to the dominance of Wealth-as-Power.

Thus another part of the solution is grass roots education on bigotry as a weaponisation of ordinary people and how to counter that weaponisation, which is necessary for us to build effective political solidarity

Militarism is Psychopathy Institutionalised.

Philantrophy is a sign that the system of Wealth-as-Power is a human rights failure. 

Charity is a sign that the system of Wealth-as-Power is a human rights failure.

The only viable pathway towards holding Wealth-as-Power Cults accountable is mass solidarity grounded in evidence and education, compassion and community. The minority cannot stand long against a united majority, even if that minority has nuclear weapons, because the majority also form part of the mercenary work force of that minority and that is a key stone. We ordinary people need to reach out to the mercenary minority of our brothers and sisters and lead them away from that exploitation.

Arrogance and Class.

The Wealthy always, always believe they are superior to the deliberately impoverished and that is a sickness that can be prevented, but once a person is exposed to the virus of wealth as superiority, there is no known cure.

Prevention is the only viable solution. Taxing Wealth is futile.

 Taxing Wealth is too late. Preventing Wealth being accumulated and extracted is the only viable long term resolution. To achieve that the population must understand the nature of Wealth-as-Power as a bully cult that causes harm in order to exist, that requires impunity to continue to exist.

Wealth-as-Power.


It is a malign, anti-evolutionary cultural behaviour pattern.

Where wealth is extracted from an exploited population, where the wealth is concentrated and then weaponised to maintain the exploitation of the population.

Capitalism, European Democratic Socialism, Monarchies, Kingdoms, War Lords, Drug Cartels, Theocracies, Mafia, Corporate Hedge Funds, The Vatican, Oligarchies, Plutocracies, TechBrocracies and others are all examples of the same behaviour pattern.


A minority extract wealth and weaponise it to maintain their dominance over the exploited population, because Power and is the drug, impunity the necessity for continuation.


Thus the arguments between each variation about their differences are mostly pointless verbiage, self centred waffle, useless in terms of bringing about a genuinely healthy society.

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We, the people, need to take direct immediate action.

The Fruit of Western Democratic Corruption

Today, starvation as a weapon threatens 2 million Gazans.
I am Irish, so this does have some meaning for me. I am also humane.


GHF - Gaza Hunting Fields - bait the trap, lure the prey, kill the prey
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Preamble
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There is nothing original or novel in what I am presenting here.

So, you might not have noticed that the Western 'democracy' model is rooted in oppositional dynamics. A government and an opposition.  This is purposeful. It generates a struggle, a power struggle and everything I and others who study the matter know about power psychologies says that power struggles corrupt everyone who participates. 

Wealth-as-Power as a societal force absolutely and purposefully prevent mutual aid and honest co-operation emerging to challenge it, confront it and hold it accountable.. 

Imagine, if you will, a family in chaos between two warring parents, or between parents and grand parents, each set struggling for power. Will they ever meet the needs of their children whilst engaged in power plays? No.  They cannot meet their own needs, let alone the needs of others who are more vulnerable. They are concerned with meeting the needs of power. The urge to power is always dysfunctional unless it is mediated by whole and healthy communities.

As a result their children of such a household will be forced by circumstance beyond their capacity to redress to try their best to survive with their many un-met needs by adopting coping strategies. They may not be consciously aware of the precise needs, they may be coping as a reaction rather than a thoughtful response. They will become habituated to that situation. In war time, the children living in war zones begin, soon enough, to experience life in a war zone as every day business. 
That is because we learn so much by experience, wordlessly.  

Christianity/Capitalism/Monarchies and Wealth-as-Power inheritance lineages deem the Nuclear Family as part of the 'natural order' precisely because a nuclear family is incapable of meeting the needs of its constituents - only a whole, healthy community can do that. A healthy community shares its resources.  The nuclear serves the needs of inheritance, concentration of wealth, suppression of women and children so that they meet the needs of lineage.

Hierarchy structures extract resources, they amass wealth-as-power. They do that by leveraging violence and by exploitation. That is their basic operation dynamic. That is what they do. Extraction requires exploitation, exploitation causes harm, the harmed dissent and sometimes they rebel. Those rebellions must be crushed for the structure of power to continue.

So, as I an laying it out, we can see that most of us are coping with a living situation that is determined by people who engage in power struggles, at some distance to us in our day to day lives. Their main concern is preserving their power. Anything that weakens, undermines, dilutes or devolves that power is understood and experienced as a threat, and treated accordingly. Palestine Action is not a terrorist entity.

"Unconditional Love without Accountability is Submission."

"Democracy without Accountability is Subversion."

We have been appealing, demonstrating, writing, wailing and crying. We are not yet exhausted.

Most of us in Europe, England, America are sitting in quite privileged situations.

The Palestinians have been, and continue to suffer intolerably. Gaza is an Intentional Hell.

The Zionist Colonisers have always intended to do this.

The Western Political Ruling Class have always denied this, and they now show us who and what they are.

Aroused by their Power.

Aroused by impunity.

Aroused by Cruelty.

Deliberate, intentional cruelty at scale.

Who are we?

What are we?

What must we do?


Please understand this : those who exercise Power over others who cause harm experience their impunity as an arousal,  a cascade of hormones and a sordid existential pleasure that floods their minds. 

This is what the  Epstein story is all about.

Their greatest fear is being held accountable and being rendered equal, normal, human, not special - it is an existential, irrational addiction fear and it lacks any empathy or resonance with any healthy adult humane being.

They who behave in this way are the greatest danger to Humanity. They must be held accountable and segregated from all society, as a matter of imminent health and safety for all of us, for all our children and their children to come.

We are the many, they are the few. They deploy bigotry to divide us.

Misogyny divides men and women. Racism divides working peoples. Poverty divides working people.

United, we can take the upper position in all our legislatures and we can then use the existing tools of our State and Taxes to hold those of the Ruling Class and Oligarchy that controls them accountable, to prevent further abuse of Power.

Only when we act in solidarity.

This has always been true.

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Power Disparity - a general overview, David Smail, Sarah Blatter Hrdy

An adult human is naturally enough more powerful than a human infant, a toddler or a child.

egalitarian cultures typically trust their children, they do not bully them

A healthy adult never exploits that power disparity to force the child to meet the perceived needs of the adult. A healthy adult uses that power disparity to care for the child, careful to meet the child's need, cognisant of the fact that the child's capacity for taking responsibility and taking action is a changing dynamic, one that is to be trusted and nurtured so that the child matures into a healthy adult.

A healthy adult would never leverage power over another in order to meet his or her perceived needs.

A healthy adult would never bully a child.

What kind of culture would generate adults who would bully a child?

Indian Residential Schools in Canada and America, a regime from the 1840s to the 1990s


Cultures that generate Power Hierarchies where superiority/inferiority values are normalised tend to be inequitable and violent.

Such cultures are innately exploitative. Such cultures generate a lot of trauma that is never resolved or healed.  Healthy parenting is made much more difficult within such cultures.

We have ample evidence that the way a hierarchy of power culture relates to a treats the children is symptomatic and traumatising, and that this intergenerational retraumatising is a leading factor in maintaining the hierarchy of power as a cult(are). The values of Power over others are internalised bye direct experience.

It is clear that these cultures are not expressions of optimal biological health for the human species.

Alloparenting.

A major behavioural separation between Primates and Hominims is that within Hominims the practice Alloparenting is widespread. 

Alloparenting is where the whole community shares in the care of the children, and other vulnerable members. Alloparenting means 'Other Parents'. Cultures where a child will have many Mothers, Fathers, Aunties and Uncles and older siblings and their friends who all share in the care of the child. Care is a lifelong practice.

'Mothers and Others' is a book positing the hypothesis that alloparenting is the dividing behavioural point between Primates and Hominins, or Monkeys, Apes and Humans. Well worth a read.

That behavioural difference is associated with or close correlates with the development of the much larger forebrain of the Hominims.

The natural healthy development of Emotional State Self Regulation is a staple of healthy relationships (and is not the same a suppression of emotions) requires activation of the fore brain - thoughtful, reflective, considered action oriented - to calm the emotional brain - because the emotional part of the brain, the amygdala and hippocampus part is reactive, sudden action oriented. This capacity is best learned in infancy, through an experiential dynamic of being cared for, all needs being met in a timely fashion.

The healthy person's emotional state is self regulated, which is key to healthy working relationships across a community of people who care for one another. 

We are human, after all, and we have moods, we can feel discomfort, pain, confusion, irritation because we are sensitive and we live within a dynamically changing environment. Accidents can happen, we can wake up out of sorts, we feel....  and being able to deal with those feelings, being able to respond rather than blindly react, is a sign of maturity. We call it emotional intelligence.

Emotional intelligence seeks to neutralise power disparities. Emotional blindness seeks to exploit power disparities.


David Smail writes about Power Disparity as a factor in human psychological distress. 

His website is off-line, however way back machine has archived it, and I found it very useful indeed, in bringing workable insight to the problems we are facing today with regards Power, Hierarchy, Psychological Distress and Human Unhappiness.

I have a number of his books in my small library.

David Smail - Biographical Note

Born 23.4.38 at Putney, London, David Smail studied philosophy and psychology at University College London, and was awarded a PhD in psychology there in 1965. 

He entered the National Health Service as a clinical psychologist in 1961, and in 1964 joined Tom Caine's psychology department at Claybury Hospital in Essex, which was at that time pioneering the 'therapeutic community' approach to the treatment of mental disorder. There followed a fruitful period of collaboration with Dr Caine, resulting in a number of research publications supporting therapeutic community methods. 

David Smail moved to Nottingham in 1968, where he remained as head of clinical psychology services until 1993. He retired fully from the NHS in 1998. He held the honorary post of Special Professor in Clinical Psychology at the University of Nottingham from 1979 until 2000. 

David died on 3 August 2014. The Guardian published an obituary available athttp://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/aug/17/david-smail 

David Small interview on Youtube.


Listen as Davis Smail explains some of his doubts about psychotherapy - short MP3, will pay on your devices player.

 

There is a War being Waged by Wealth as Power against all of us, irrespective of our amateur political leanings.

https://dwylcorneilius.blogspot.com/2022/01/why-oligarchy-are-at-war-against.html


The Fossil Fuel and Mining Oligarchy knew about Climate Disruption 50 years ago. Their own Scientists confirmed it. The Shareholders decided to deny the Science. They wanted to keep drilling, producing, maintain and increase consumption in order  to amass ever more Wealth as Power.


That makes them culpable for the avoidable harms they chose not to avoid.


That culpability also makes them liable for the costs of the harms caused, and other ancillary costs associated with all of this.


They KNOW this.


They understand that if ANY Democratic Legislature upholds, enforces or passes Laws to hold them accountable that they will lose their Wealth and more importantly, they will lose the Political Power as a Ruling Class Lobby.


This they have chosen to not cede.


They are therefore waging an all out war against Democratic Accountability.


Most ordinary people do not understand this because we are still fixated on the idea of Greed for Money rather than the matter of Wealth as Power, Wealth as a Ruling Lobby that dictates how society is to be run.


This war is a war against all of us, irrespective of our political leanings.


Solidarity is the only power we can exert. This they know and that is why they spend so much energy on dividing us......


When we build a rational solidarity, their Rule is over.








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When Institutions seek to protect themselves, rather than protect the most vulnerable - the pattern we must confront.

A letter I wrote and sent to various media and political representatives.

"I write as a Survivor. 




In recent articles covering The Catholic Church, the careful host of innumerable predatory clerics, and the case of Ms. Lethby, the serial killer of babies within an NHS setting, the same pattern emerges - an institution seeks to protect it's reputation and status when atrocious abuse is disclosed, the abusers continue to gain access to the most vulnerable and cause more intolerable harm.  When they are eventually stopped, it is already too late.

Avoidable harms to the most vulnerable are not avoided in order to avoid perceived harms to one's public reputation. This is a pattern, a behavioural characteristic, a cultural dynamic.

"The psychology of any given culture or society is both revealed and perpetuated in how they relate to and treat the most vulnerable among them."

The primary task of healthy social management is to prevent harm and to increase safety in any organisation.

From Austerity to Catholic Institutions, from NHS management to the managers of the London Met, from the way Fossil Fuel Industry has masked awareness of what continued use of fossil fuels was long proven to cause, and then how each of these devoted vast PR resources to campaigns of denial and propaganda to deflect responsibility and evade accountability in order to enable continuation of their operations, we see this pattern and the vast harm it causes.

This goes well beyond the 'few bad apples' trope, another careful and often used line of defence. This is clearly a question of unhealthy social management.

Is it not time we turned and faced this problem, this pattern of behaviour, as a cultural and institutional matter of the utmost importance?  

How do we change the psychology of a culture where those who occupy positions of distal power seek to protect their power and in so doing the evade their duty of care to the most vulnerable, leading to more harm rather than more safety? 

Well, the first step is to publicly recognise the pattern, to be open and honest about how wide and deep it penetrates our Society, with a view to breaking that pattern. 


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When we claim the Politicians are incompetent, I think we are trying to evade the truth.

When we, the people, claim the Politicians are incompetent, I think we and the politicians are trying to evade the truth.

The NeoLiberal Politicians are extremely able - indeed they are adept, experts, geniuses - at looting the taxpayer, and increasing wealth extraction. 

Whilst we - the ordinary worker and tax payer - are utterly incompetent in countering that, let alone preventing it.

The inability of Labour socially minded MPs to counter the disgusting abusive campaigns of slander, gaslighting, bullying by the Labour NeoLiberals within the party it self speaks to this truth.

We ordinary folk need to up our game. Big Time. Collectively.



How Bullying operates in Politics.

"Very few people, when put to the test, have the integrity and moral courage to stand up against bullying, harassment, abuse, threats and corruption. The targets of adult bullying are selected often because they DO have the moral courage to challenge; many people will pass by on the other side.

A target of adult bullying is most often chosen because of their strength, not their weaknessResearch shows that targets of bullying tend to have highly developed empathy, and sensitivity for others, a high degree of perceptiveness, high moral values, a well-developed integrity, a strong sense of fair play and reasonableness, a low propensity to violence, a reluctance to pursue grievance, disciplinary or legal action, a strong forgiving streak and a mature understanding of the need to resolve conflict with dialogue. Often, targets of bullying are independent, self-reliant and “different” in some way. Weak people often disingenuously confuse these hallmarks of character with weakness.

Bullies aim to inflict psychological injury more often than physical injury. Their main aim is to control, discredit, isolate and eliminate their target.

The word “victim” also allows disingenuous people to tap into and stimulate other people’s misconceptions and prejudices of victimhood which include the inference that the person was somehow complicit in the abuse. (See just-world fallacy and victim-blame narrative). So I use the word “target”, which is also accurate because bullying involves the intentional singling out of a person for abuse.

Bullies, who have no integrity, are vindictive, aggressive, demanding, and regularly violate others’ boundaries; displaying aggression does not respect peoples’ rights, and a bully’s “requests” come with a negative consequence if the course of action demanded by the bully is declined. A bully’s bad behaviour is entirely his or her responsibility, they intend to cause their targets harm, to undermine them and damage them socially, emotionally, psychologically and sometimes, physically. And they often do.

Bullies typically isolate and dehumanise their targets in order to disempower themIt’s a key tactic of control used by all abusers, it can be particularly injuring, emotionally.

The major triggers for bullying come from the bully’s own sense of inadequacy, according to research

Feeling
 envious and threatened by others with competence, integrity and popularity, the bully will project onto them their own inadequacy and incompetence, and often the bully will use their own behaviours and thoughts, attributing them to their target, to rally support for their “cause”. The inadequacy or envy of a bully is often translated into negative language used intentionally to completely diminish the target’s positive qualities, socially.

Using unwarranted criticism and threats, the bully tries to control their target and subjugate them, without a thought for that persons’ contributions, reputation, well-being, health or self confidence. Sooner or later this person – the bully’s target – realises that they are not only being “managed” but bullied, and they will start to show signs of resistance to that. Often, anything said in the target’s self-defence will be distorted and used by the bully, too. Gaslighting involves attempts to either negate or redefine a target’s experiences, and abusers often use this method.

The bully often fears exposure of his/her own incompetence and inadequacy, and takes steps to disable the the target, typically by isolating them and/or destroying their credibility and reputation among peers and decision-makers, putting them out of the picture in the workplace through dismissal, forced resignation or even early retirement. Once the target has gone, within about two weeks, the bully’s focus turns to someone else and the cycle starts again.

Some people enjoy the sense of power and control that bullying others gives them.  

Online bullies aim to isolate the target, destroy their credibility and force them out of established communities and groups." 

This describes exactly what Brexit, and the anti-Corbyn campaign within Labour and across the News Media, did.

Source : https://politicsandinsights.org/2015/01/22/how-bullying-works-projection-and-scapegoating

This blog is essential reading for everyone who votes, and indeed for those who do not vote...  


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