to meeting the needs of the natural child.
and in how they relate to and treat the most vulnerable people within their society.
Heal that and we can heal everything.
On Communism, Capitalism and Alloparenting.
to meeting the needs of the natural child.
Belfast Riots : Our species thrivival and evolution is correlated with alloparenting.
"Mothers and Others is a brilliant work on a profoundly important subject. The leading scientific authority on motherhood has come through again." -E. O. Wilson
Somewhere in Africa, more than a million years ago, a line of apes began to rear their young differently than their Great Ape ancestors. From this new form of care came new ways of engaging and understanding each other. How such singular human capacities evolved, and how they have kept us alive for thousands of generations, is the mystery revealed in this bold and wide-ranging new vision of human emotional evolution.
Mothers and Others finds the key in the primatologically unique length of human childhood. If the young were to survive in a world of scarce food, they needed to be cared for, not only by their mothers but also by siblings, aunts, fathers, friends-and, with any luck, grandmothers.
Out of this complicated and contingent form of childrearing, Sarah Hrdy argues, came the human capacity for understanding others.
Mothers and others teach us who will care, and who will not.
Elon Musk's statement that 'The greatest weakness of Western Civilisation
But it is also an intricately knit argument that ever since the Pleistocene, it has taken a village to raise children-and how that gave our ancient ancestors the first push on the path toward becoming emotionally modern human beings.
https://press.princeton.edu/books/hardcover/9780691238777/father-time
It has long seemed self-evident that women care for babies and men do other things. Hasn’t it always been so? When evolutionary science came along, it rubber-stamped this venerable division of labor: mammalian males evolved to compete for status and mates, while females were purpose-built to gestate, suckle, and otherwise nurture the victors’ offspring.
But come the twenty-first century, increasing numbers of men are tending babies, sometimes right from birth. How can this be happening?
In Father Time, Hrdy draws on a wealth of research to argue that this ongoing transformation in men is not only cultural, but profoundly biological. Men in prolonged intimate contact with babies exhibit responses nearly identical to those in the bodies and brains of mothers.
They develop caring potential that wealth-as-power hierarchies and patriarchy pretended men do not possess.
The result is a masterful synthesis of evolutionary and historical perspectives that expands our understanding of what it means to be a man—and what the implications might be for society and our species.
History tells us the British Security State and its covert military wing were involved in the Protestant violence, and later on infiltrated the IRA and other militia and ran undercover attacks, killings and bombings, presenting them as from each 'side' presumably to escalate and exacerbate the shituation into a war as a way to crush the Civil Rights Movement.
This is very much what is going on in Northern Ireland and England in 2026 - this time it is immigrants, rather than Catholics, who are being used as scapegoats and targets. The political objective of all of this is to divide a population that is under duress by an oligarchy system, in order to prevent connected, humane, community oriented solidarity ever emerging as a political movement. A movement that would hold Wealth-as-Power accountable and prevent it from causing more harm.
The British Ruling Class prefer chaos to being held accountable. They always have.
Anyone who reads history in detail, from the perspective of survivors of organised violence in colonised lands would understand this. Fortunately the Ruling Class document their covert action in a variety of ways which historians pore over decades after the events being examined. In Northern Ireland this was called collusion.
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My Philosophy is informed by Alloparenting, Child Development, Egalitarian Culture Lived Experience
Solidarity emerges from the psychology of Alloparenting as at the primary behavioural separation of Hominins from Primates. Shared parenting it is believed drove and was supported through the evolutionary enlargement of our forebrains over millions of years. We now understand that the forebrain is critical in how we learn, especially how we learn to self regulate our emotional states, what ever they might be, in any given moment. We understand how trauma and chronic stress in early life undermines this process. Co-operation demands a cognitive capacity for emotional state self regulation that builds mutual aid communities.
Allan Schore's work on the development of the emotional self in infancy as a lived experience learning before language is acquired, through carer to infant interactions, is substantive.
Robert Sapolsky too has done really fine work on human behaviour as product of millions of years of evolution as must as what happens in the milliseconds, seconds, minutes, days, weeks, years before any given action is taken.
Both are adept, well respected expert neuroscientists with a special interest in human behaviour. Both demonstrate the behaviour is not necessarily driven by genetics, as much as it is driven by lived experiential learning and circumstance.
Emotional Intelligence is something we all know something about, some more than others, most often through no fault or flaw of their own.
A metric for healthy Governance : I think of Healthy Governance as being focused on the practical realities of administering a communities shared resources for the equal benefit of all members of that community.
Healthy governance sets the context of governance as operating within as a shared responsibility of duty of care for one another. In that regards healthy governance has to be evidence led at all times.
Opinion and belief are insufficient to meet the responsibility of duty of care. Healthy governance sets the global context of governance as nurturing, caring for and stewarding of the habitat within which the community lives and from which that community draws living materials and other resources.
We have ample evidence of healthy long standing sustainable egalitarian ways of living, egalitarian cultures, from 19th, 20th and 21st Century Anthropology but also including first contact accounts by the first colonial 'explorers' from European Powers who met many, many older cultures as they ranged across Earth seeking conquest and colonisation.
Some have written of what they call 'pre-conquest consciousness'. Can you imagine what it might like to be part of a human community that knows nothing of conquest? Where there is no memory of that scale of violence, where friendship and affiliation is the primary modality of social organisation?
Our children all deserve a future shared environment that is healthy, that they can look forwards to, rather than what most of our children now fear - an entire generation is growing up worried about their futures, and we are the ones who ought to be stewarding that space for them to grow into.
What are we doing?
"You're going to have to change the priorities of your life if you love this planet"
"It helps if you become your own best friend and find out what is true about all this for yourself."
"When we as a society begin to value mothers as the givers and supporters of life then we will see social change in ways that matter."
"The psychology of any given family, community or society is both revealed and perpetuated in how that family, community or society relates to and treats the children and the most vulnerable people. Change that and you can change everything. Liberation is all about how we relate towards one another."
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Emotional Intelligence is one of the most beautiful aspects of being a genuinely healthy evolved human
It takes almost no effort to submit to a violent hierarchy, to get by. That said the distress of living under a violent hierarchy generates chronic stressors that make life still very difficult indeed, with reasonable cause of anxiety, sadness, despair all of which require great effort to manage.
It takes immense effort to stand up to a violent hierarchy in order to thrive well.
That effort is made less of a burden when the majority of the population take it on as their task. This is a numbers game, We do have the numbers.
We need to de-numb ourselves, and that will require we care more for each other, even for strangers in our midst.
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Emotional intelligence starts in utero, is matured in infancy and practiced throughout a healthy life within a healthy community. This is a biological mandate for optimal human health as individuals and as collectives.
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| The emotional mature Corbyn and the emotionally immature Starmer. One seeks to nurture, the other to dominate. This is a true representation of the hearts and minds of these men. |
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