Why Ireland must meet the unmet needs of Survivors of predatory abuse within Ireland's schools.

Why Ireland must meet the unmet needs of Survivors of predatory abuse within Ireland's schools.

source : wikipedia~

A short report from EURONEWS, on the matter of historical predatory abuse within educational settings operated by Church and State.


Mark Vincent Healy is a long time Survivor's Advocate, based in Ireland.

I note that whilst Mark's concerns prefaced the piece, the primary concern of the remainder of the report was the 'crisis' for The Catholic Church, not the day-to-day crisis of Survivors lived experience. The Church's needs, once again, cast their shadow over the unmet needs of Survivors. I do understand that such reporting concerns is a matter for EuroNews editorial. I assume they did not mean to be participants in casting that shadow. 
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Leo Varadkar is reported by The Irish Times making the following statements. 

There is “no perfect option” for the type of inquiry to be set up to examine allegations of abuse at schools run by the Spiritans religious order, Tánaiste Leo Varadkar has said.

The Government has stressed that the process of establishing an inquiry will be victim-led, Mr Varadkar reiterated, adding that he would like to avoid a “a highly legalistic in private, statutory investigation that is so wide-ranging and involves so many lawyers that it doesn’t report for five or six years, and that is a risk”.

But Mr Varadkar also added: “What matters is what the survivors think.”

He said: “There’s no perfect option, and I think it’s important we engage with the survivors and go through with them what the pros and cons of the different models are.”

In this piece I will lay out why I think Ireland needs to host a Public Inquiry into the History of Sexual and Predatory abuse and Violence within State and Church funded and operated schools, on the basis of meeting the unmet needs of the children who were harmed, the unmet needs of the adults they grew up as, the unmet needs of their families and communities and in a sense, the unmet need of Ireland as a population, an ethnic group, a healthy democratic State and a just Society regarding this matter.

Mark Vincent Healy speaks on this, in 2019.

Please bear his words and insight in mind as you read on.
1. At the time of each and every assault, during every attempt to bully, groom or sway the targeted child, that child's needs for safety and nurture were unmet. Those needs remained unmet for as long as the Institutions and others covered up and masked what had really happened, in order to protect their image, status and wealth. 
2. When a few Survivors and others expressed concern or brought cases forward, and presented testimony, starting more than four decades ago, public awareness of the criminality began to grow. Slowly. But still, most Survivors needs remained unmet. The Institutions adopted a defensive stance. Survivors continued to suffer, as did their families, friendships and colleagues, from the fall out of those unmet needs, year after year. This burdened yet another generation of Irish people growing up into adulthood with unmet needs. Intergenerational trauma. Layers of distress.
3. There have been 5 public inquiries since the 1990s, with some progress in the understanding of what was done, and in attaining a degree of accountability, albeit inadequate to the needs of Survivors. There is better understanding of the harm caused, and even still, Survivors needs remain unmet. Unfinished business.

This harm was caused to tens of thousands of children (a chart of estimates of numbers of Survivors across the EU, with numbers given for Ireland) who lived with the trauma and the distress into adulthood, where it impacted every part of their lives...

Reflect for a moment on the cascade of trauma and distress that percolated out from the initial harms. for over 70 years, and try to grasp the scale of the adverse impact on families and communities during that time. This vast well of distress and trauma is what we are draining, and drain it we must, for clear water to emerge.
4. The obvious empathy, compassion and respect show to the Ryan brothers, Mark and David, who spoke as Survivors of predatory sexual abuse by two Spiritan clerics (one of whom used rape as a punishment upon David) on RTE's flagship show, The Late Late, in November last year reflects the majority view among Irish Citizens. There was sorrow and anger there too, an outrage deeply felt, a visceral shock when David spoke of the leniency in Criminal Court case shown to that vicious offender, in spite of his horrific attack, due to 'old age'!  

5. There was a sense of  determination that the needs of Survivors be fully met, that the matter be fully and correctly resolved, in the heartfelt standing ovation given to the Ryan brothers at the end of the show. 
6. The Irish Government has undertaken public commitments to holding an Inquiry into Predatory Abuse within Spiritan Boarding Schools.  Good. Survivors are calling for an Inquiry into the entire school system - all boarding schools and all day schools. Because they know that their needs are still unmet.  
7. Survivors, clinical experts and advocates are calling for a place at the table, via a Survivors Panel, when the terms of reference are being set out. Survivors deserve a place there as equals, to set out the task of the Inquiry with their experience, their pain, their  insight and their wisdom informing the process at every stage. That panel must function as a feed in from the wider Survivor demographic to the process.
8. The task of the inquiry will take whatever steps required to establish the depth and scale of abuse, the extent of cover-up and management of image by Institutions and to establish what harms both of these dynamics have caused, down through the generations, and then to design policy and protocol that meets the unmet needs of all Survivors, those who live, and those who have passed away, needs unmet until the very end, because these are also among the unmet needs of Irish Civil and Spiritual Society as a whole entity.
9. That cannot be done without the direct involvement of Survivors clinicians and advocates as equals with Irish Government officials, in setting out the terms of the Inquiry.

10. Meet the unmet needs of Survivors, allow a healthy and just accounting to emerge, and thus resolve the historical abuse, by learning from our shared history, resolving to never allow such behaviour to emerge ever again. A cognitively and materially changed culture.  A healthier culture.

11. The State is not some separate entity from the people, it is of the people, by the people and for the people.

The core social contract of regulating life, of crafting legislation so that the population are safe from avoidable harms, is inherent to the Irish State, and the Irish people.

Likewise the Church. Both Institutions are funded by the population, and both have been entrusted with care of vulnerable adults and children, and both have abused that trust - The Church operated the residential 'care' systems, day schools and boarding schools, under licence from The State.

12. Both institutions failed to protect the vulnerable from avoidable harms, both institutions understood that the Church had a strategy of aggressive action to suppress knowledge of the harms, and that this caused more harm to survivors. They justified it as 'protecting the Institution'. The Church moved predatory clerics from place to place, following allegations or discovery, repeatedly and this enabled yet more predation by these men.

13. Thus the resolution of the matter requires an accurate, honest historical account of what happened, as laid out above.

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It requires that the Irish, as a State, a people and a Faith (Christianity) work together to resolve this matter and meet the needs of Survivors, including end of life support, support for families affected and other supports, such as education, physical and psychological therapy, health care and most of all the validation of Survivors as reliable witnesses too long silenced because Institutions of Power deem their image and status and wealth more important than the harms caused to so many people, adults and children alike.

In terms of the economics of this, consider the cost of tens of thousands of lives afflicted, how those adverse effect reverberated in the lives of their families, colleagues and communities. The cost of prevention, had it been in place, would be nothing by comparison.

Those historical human and material 'costs' and the current unmet needs of living Survivors, their families and of deceased Survivors families ought not be limited or decreased via protocol to 'protect tax payers assets' for the States part in this matter. This ought to apply to the Church equally. Indeed that was the original assessment.
I suggest that the task is to meet those needs, and to free the Survivors of the burden of their unmet needs, needs that ought to have been met at the first contact with predatory, abusive adults. Survivors have already borne immeasurable, irredeemable harm and costs, and the cost to the Irish State and the Irish people (as tax payers and citizens) of a just settlement of this matter must be borne for Irish culture and society to thrive as a just culture, a just society.

The Survivors are all innocents.

Here is a previous longer blog I wrote about the needs of Survivors.... above all the need for safety to bear witness, to receive validation and to be afforded the empathic care due Survivors, all of whom were vulnerable children exposed to gross predation, whose lives were destroyed through no fault of their own.

Innocents, one and all.
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Up the Tory mountain, Down the workers glen, They daren’t go a-husting For fear of Unionised men;

A rewrite of that lovely poem, 'The Fairies' by William Allingham, which was then and remains to this day a popular poem, for it is lovely indeed. That said, this re-write as a silly satire song ain't anything like the original, and I apologise to any expectations otherwise.. 

source : Metro  : New anti-Union, anti-strike, anti-protest Laws coming soon!

Someone, somewhere is very worried, stupidly so. We want balance not revenge. Equity is justice applied and made materially real. Then we're all safe, bruv, innit.
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Up the Tory mountain,Down the workers glen,They daren’t go a-hustingFor fear of Unionised men;Wee folk, good folk,Trooping all together;Warm pickets, no top hats,Corbyn and Lynch unfettered!
Down along the rocky shoreSome make their home,They swim through the wakeOf sewer tide-foam.
Some in their mansionsAnd what their Tax Havens make,With their CP watchdogs,All night awake.
High on the hill-topThe old King sits;He is now so old and greyHe’s nigh lost his wits.With a bridge of Barnum Verbiage,England he crosses,On his stately journeysFrom Palace to the masses;Or going up with the musicOn cold starry nights,To sup with the Queen ConsortOf the cold Northern Lights.
They stole little BrexitFor fifty years long;When they made the exit,their friends were all gone.They took a vacuous tack,Between the night and morrow,They thought that we was fast asleep,- we was drained by the horror.They have klept it ever sinceDeep within the State,Media a bed of fig-leaves,Watching till we wake.
By the privatised hillside,Through the KCs* care,They've planted legalese For enclosure, here and there.
Is any man so daringAs dig them up in spite,He shall find their sharpest thorns,The Met, at the door, in bed at night. (Assange....)
Up the Tory mountain,Down the workers glen,They daren’t go a-hustingFor fear of unionised men;Wee folk, good folk,Men and women, all together;Green jacket, red cap,McAnea and Sidhu KC* unfettered!

*Kings Counsel or Queens Counsel
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Open Letter on Grooming and the need for legislation to criminalise such manipulative behaviour wherever it emerges.

Schoolgirl who faced terror charges is ‘wake-up call about grooming.

Of course, it is not just on Facebook  etc., where grooming occurs. It is a common problem right across our culture, from Religion to Politics, from Populist Rhetoric to Misogynist and Racist Dog Whistles, from Ponzi Schemes to Phishing Emails.

To the Editor
An article on the Guardian, 7th January, 2023, about a teenage girl, Rhiannon Rudd, who was arrested on terrorism charges, which were dropped when it was shown that she had been groomed, tells a terrible story.
Someone knowingly targeted a vulnerable person, having studied that person's biases, lack of knowledge, fears and hopes, provided content designed to exacerbate the emotional dynamics of those vulnerabilities, in order to drive behavioural change that could then be exploited. 
Tragically, Rhiannon Rudd committed suicide a year after this incident. 
Anyone, at any age, can be subjected to such targeting. We can see the adverse impacts of this activity all around us. It's not simply a problem with social media, it is a problem within our culture. 
This is quite clearly criminal behaviour, given the intent to manipulate others, in order to exploit them, wherever it happens, even if legislation does not exist to impose a criminal penalty.
We need  legislation that clearly identifies this activity, that imposes a robust custodial sentence upon anyone or any entity proven to have  engaged in such activity.
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The unmet needs of Survivors - a Public Inquiry in Ireland in 2023. What is the task here?

Requiem for a Nation's children.

*this image is of a care setting, in North America, where State and Church operated residential institutional systems. The problem is a global problem, a cultural problem.

*Blackrock College, served by Willow Park Preparatory School, operated by the order formerly known as The Holy Ghost Fathers, now The Spiritans. The Spiritans are one of many orders that have operated residential and day school facilities on behalf of the State since the 1930s.

Another Public Inquiry?

As the Irish Government proceeds with the matter of establishing a Trauma Informed Public Inquiry into Clerical Sexual, Physical, Emotional and Psychological Abuse of Children within Irish State and Church operated Schools, Boarding Schools, Day Schools and Summer Schools to establish with reliable evidence what really happened, Such an inquiry must also find ways to accept direction from Survivors and their expert advocates - it is Survivors needs that are the task context here - in essence the principals are tasked with meeting Survivors needs.
Therefore a panel of Survivors, a formal transparent mechanism for information flow between Survivors as a demographic, and as individuals, feeding into decision making processes where decision are being considered that will have impact on their lives must be created.
Democracy.
An old Pope (retired) has passed. RIP. There is still a Pope.
The Faith so many decent, deferent people practice and the Institutional Power Establishment of The Vatican and the National Churches as a global local syndicate operate on entirely different priorities. 
Faith is for people to follow, power is for the hierarchy to exercise or delegate.
Matters of power are not for the congregation to be concerned about.  They are urged to pray, pay, procreate and vote.

It's a business model. This is not of the Faith. It is political. Power.
Obituaries for Benedict the Retired that I have read, across the news networks, tended to overlook the reality. 

Reality check.
We are looking at such a vast dank bottomless well of criminal harm of children, each and every one of those children, a human being, intensely alive and sensitive, vulnerable and overpowered, terrorised, traumatised, disfigured, dehumanised, each assault on it's own a horrific, unspeakable lived experience. 
I ask the reader to add up the hundreds of thousands of children harmed in this context, the hundreds of thousands of adult lives lived in distress. 
The politics of perpetuating the clerical 'privatised and sanctified' institutional care in every every parish, every county of Ireland since their formation in the 1930s in spite of the harms caused. They knew. That too is a vast crime scene. 
When pundits and reporters in news media describe the emergence of reliable survivor testimony as causing a 'scandal' for The Church, The Vatican, The Pope it's a deliberately meek and venal euphemism.
Harm on that scale is not a scandal. 
Neither is the Institutions protection racket a scandal. Both are crime scenes. It's a multigenerational international global crime scene. These unspeakable acts are not, as the Church would claim, sins that can be absolved in a confessional. These are not matters to be set aside due to 'different standards of those times'.
Sexual assault and battery has been, is always and always will be a criminal act. 
Grooming children into submitting to sexual assault is a criminal act. It has always been a criminal act. The power of the adult used to exploit the vulnerable child. Criminal.
How dare they call that a 'scandal'? 
That sounds to me like it's coming from a culture that, even still, refuses to listen, that evades hearing the evidence, the lived experience of Survivors in their journey for justice, an immense task in and of itself, and ask 'what needs remain unmet?' which will lead the culture to acknowledge the needs of Survivors and the corrective action to be taken.
If only the retired Popes obituary could have included the following : 
"This Pope (retired) directed the entire Church and State collaborative institutional care system and all and sundry others associated to admit to public inquiry all known cases of abuse of children, all settlements, all agreements, all movements, known outcomes, internal discussion documents, the historical record so to speak, to allow a fullest possible understanding of what harm was caused, all along the way. Without fear or favour. 
He left a legacy of open, transparent accountability driven by a genuine understanding of the harm caused, designed to meet the needs left unmet and set a path towards having those needs met in full, with life long support, to bring closure to this era of systemic abuse. He is remembered as a wise, empathic Pope, who learned on the job and accelerated the path towards accountability, justice and peace."
It doesn't. If the current Pope passed away next week, his obituary would not contain that short paragraph. 
Which is precisely why we are where we are.
There's a pattern observed globally through public inquiries of this nature. Often it is the case that more has been left out than was included, leaving a less than accurate historical recording of what happened and a dissatisfied Survivor demographic, still in distress.

That pattern must be broken. 
Survivors have a real need here, in terms of defining the task of a Public Inquiry, at the outset. That nee is to be  working part of the task definition process related to the inquiry, and on an equal footing.
What is the task before us?
Meeting Survivors needs, and meeting the needs of a just society. Meeting children's needs.
Historically, the Institutions have adopted a case by case approach adopting a defensive, protective and adversarial flavour. Management at the individual level and at the situational level. 
Five inquiries into five institutional settings, each one dragged out of the institutions, with much misgivings on all sides, and still much remains to be done to bring about a just resolution and peace among Survivors and their families and communities related to all those previous Inquiries and Reports. There is a pattern here. We can all see it.
Institutions make offers, none of which is based on listening to and integrating Survivors presentation of their needs. The offers serve the institutions desire to evade full disclosure and accountability.
What is so distressing to whoever it is, about asking Survivors and their advocates what those needs are in order to know what to do to meet them?
What must we do?
As the Irish Government proceeds with the setting of a Public Inquiry they must allow themselves to be directed by Survivors - it is Survivors needs that are the task master here. 
There are needs too, for the institutions. These ought not be seen as competing needs, or reasons for defensiveness. This must not be allowed to enable more power struggles. The Institutions need justice and accountability as much as the Survivors and the wider population. No justice, no peace is a statement of fact, not a threat.

Survivors unmet needs.
Survivors needs start with the need for safety, to speak about the harm. 
The Survivor needs that the harm is stopped from happening ever again and needs proof - because they see that the community is protecting the children. 
Survivors needed nothing swept under the carpet.

Survivors need open accountability, due sanction in timely fashion. For so many, these are unmet needs. So many children, so many adults, so many children, for generations. it is so painful and so sad. This is no small thing we are faced with.
Historically when the Survivors spoke out, those who were forced to listen heard only what they could use as leverage, seeking ways to craft made-to-measure confidential 'agreements' and arrangements and using political influence to quieten the situation, to manage the situation without ceding power.
Protect the institution. 
Survivors do not need to protect the Institutions from themselves. Survivors are not served when manipulated into a buffer to protect and maintain image, status and power of the Institutions.
I would say the wider society does not need  the Institutions to protect themselves from full disclosure. It is that simple. 
Let it all out in an organised, verifiable process. Is it not the case here that the Society, as a whole, has a duty of care. 
This is a shared social, physical and psychological environmental crime against humanity - we must act. We must act wisely.
I think a Public Inquiry tasked to get best accurate understanding, of these terrible decades, to have as much data as possible, not least from living survivors, access to all institutional records, analysed and drilled into, so as to really understand the full human impact. I think that culturally, and at governance levels, and anywhere else it must be treated seriously as a grave matter of social policy, health policy and care settings safety as a societal issue. All vulnerable people, at any age, must be free from all forms of systemic predatory abuse and harm.
This is a grave matter because all the untold and unaccounted for harm impacts the lived experience of survivors and their families, their relationships within their communities, and the wider culture until it is healthfully resolved.
Harm cannot be undone. Justice can be done. 
Cultural change can be done.
What must we do?
What are the needs of Survivors, today?
This article - "I Just Want Justice": The Impact of HistoricalInstitutional Child-Abuse Inquiries from the Survivor's Perspective by Patricia LundyÉire-Ireland, Volume 55, Numbers 1 & 2, Spring/Summer 2020, pp. 252-278
Thanks to Mark Vincent Healy for the provision of this document, and many others related to this matter, via his website, his work, his media presence, his daily effort on behalf of Survivors. https://twitter.com/markvhealy?lang=en 
https://www.mvh.ie/research/Lundy-Eire-Ireland-article.pdf is a research document that through survivor interviews during an inquiry process identifies eleven primary justice needs articulated by survivors.- 1. Voice, 2. Acknowledgment, 3. Vindication (including validation), 4. Apology,5. Redress (monetary and symbolic),6. Rehabilitation measures,7. Intergenerational needs,8. Access to records, authoritative historical records, 9. Offender accountability 10. Taking responsibility, 11. Prosecution.
These form the basis of the study’s analytical framework or measurement tool. 
-I would add that a materially reliable sense or lived experience  of agency throughout this process is also a need for Survivors.

We would do well to find out what needs are as yet unmet.

https://www.ncronline.org/news/irish-archbishop-criticizes-pathetic-responses-clergy-abuse

Mark Vincent Healy, who was abused by two priests from 1969 to 1973 during his time at another Spiritan school, St Mary's College in Dublin, has called for an independent inquiry to determine the scale of abuse in schools run by the religious congregation.

Healy, who was the first Irish male survivor of abuse to meet Pope Francis in 2014, recounted how one of his abusers was stationed at Blackrock College for a time as well as at Rockwell College in County Tipperary. The same abuser also is accused of abuse in Sierra Leone, where he was stationed following allegations by five families in 1973.

"I have no doubt there are considerably more cases," Healy said.

Mark Vincent Healy is urging the Irish Government and all interested parties to establish a Survivors Panel to work as equal partners in any Public Inquiry, providing essential information, data and insight to be taken into account at every stage of this process.

Survivors active engagement in driving the process forwards, informing it and tasking it at every level.
And this goes with a wider societal acknowledgement of Survivors prior agency, of that immense effort already made - without their testimony in public, we'd never have known. 
Do we have any idea of how difficult that attempt to hold abusers and institutions to account is, given the mental health, the physical health of survivors of chronic trauma, given a cultural deference to the Institutions, the power of those institutions? 
Must we leave all the heavy lifting to the survivors, or would we be better advised to lend a strong hand to their cause? 
Because it is, by definition, our cause. Meet the needs of the children of Ireland.
The Irish population, comprised of many varied Faiths,  agnosticism or atheism, secularists alike must amplify that effort, and make sure justice is fully served and peace returns to our culture. This is about all our children.
That effort is there to be made, as we move day by day into the future, when must all put our shoulders to the wheel. 

It is the nature of the intersectional real world. Complex matters require honest discourse and access to accurate data and are made more complicated than they need to be because of power struggles or the 'interest of Power' as an influence that distorts the discourse. We cannot allow a pattern to emerge where the process degenerates into a power struggle between Survivors and the Institutions. That cannot happen.

As we face the polluting of our shared environment, we face this sordid history of the pollution of our children as part of that great work to cease the pollution, end the harm. This is what makes us truly human.
What must we do?
The detail of the lived experience of survivors and families and wider community is a historical resevoir. Start by listening to Survivors and to those expert clinical, academic, civil and legal advocates who are trauma informed. 
What are the needs of Survivors, then and now?
Which Pope will finally take the steps to order the Church to meet those needs in full?
How many more years must we wait for justice?

Which Taoiseach will drive forwards a public inquiry that does the same?



Kindest regards

Corneilius

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Public Inquiry : Survivors as equals at the table, and needs unmet thus far.There is a world of difference between ‘survivor-led’ and ‘survivor-consulted’.

*There is a world of difference between ‘survivor-led’ and ‘survivor-consulted’. 

A much respected hard working survivor advocate wrote these *words.  These are mine : a public inquiry cannot be a case of 'we do this to and for Survivors, whom we've consulted.' As I write I remind myself, and my readers that I do not write for all Survivors, as an 'authority'. I wrote these words because they are what I see, from my small space, looking at it all.

I want to contribute to the task ahead of us.

On the 6th November 2022 two brothers, who were subjected to predatory abuse by the same cleric, some 40 years ago, told their story to the Irish people, via RTE, the State public broadcaster.

https://www.rte.ie/radio/doconone/1333550-blackrock-boys

In the following weeks further presentations by the two brothers, and others, across Irish News media revealed a wider extent of predatory abuse of children than previously acknowledged. The brothers, and others, issued calls for a Public Inquiry. Government made noises moving towards that outcome, everyone unsure what the task of this Inquiry ought to be.

Their personal testimony was also presented, a month later on November 9th, on the popular Late Late Show. Their testimony was raw, honest, painful, courageous, humble, upright, no more shame. The brutality of their assailant was made quite clear, in brief stark terms. 

RTE Late Late Show 9 November segment : A survivor, David, describes his experience, honestly, humbly.

The audience paid close attention to the two brothers and their friend, as they spoke, from start to finish.  The support for these two men, their friend, the respect for courage, the empathy and concern was palpable.
The Institutions protected the assailants, not the children.

The audience took upon itself to offer a long hearty standing ovation to the two brothers, and their friend and by extension to proffer support and recognition, to all Survivors, in Ireland and elsewhere across a varied diaspora as the precious children of Ireland. To be nurtured. To be held, in safety, and supported to live well, and in some peace, if justice is fully served.

21% of one year of Black Rock College reported incidents of sexual abuse, as targets or as bystanders.

How many in each year, on any given year? In any given day school or boarding school? In places that purport to nurture children?

How many boarding schools were in operation over all that time, all those lost childhoods?

We have been here before. RTE Question Time 25th May 2009.

"A question is asked about the Ryan Commission report on child abuse within institutions run by the religious orders in Ireland. After the panel had spoken the questioner responded and his response...well see for yourself. Just a note, but my apologies for the ragged nature of the end of the piece. Editing wasn't very good with the late hour."


I have been told that there are court and civil cases dating back to 1982 that have yet to arrive at satisfactory accountability, there are gaps in support for Survivors, there's too many inadequate responses - the institutions were begrudging, defensive, justice is delayed. More harm is caused.

So last century, don't you think? Only ain't. That's really sad.

Ireland, this time we really do need to know what happened, we need to understand this, accurately, honestly, fully. 

" A problem that is more fully understood is half way towards resolution, a problem incorrectly understood is insoluble."

That, plus immediate support for presenting current survivors, is the start, and then we can set matters as right as they can be, in this imperfect, evolving culture we share. We must understand this. We must support the Survivors, and together support the Government of the day, and the Churches and others to do the right thing, correctly.

A mandate for a country, a population.

Do the right thing.
The State and people of Ireland ought understand that they are now mandated by the testimony of Survivors, by their presence, their very existence as a demographic  (an identifiable group of citizens, adults who as children have been grievously harmed within the 'care' of Institutions of Education)  to lend all  support to the association of Survivors as a body, with a representative panel, seated at the table where Government and others discuss the nature, task and terms of reference of this Public Inquiry.
A representative panel of Survivors, supported by experts and advocates, where the concerns of Survivors regarding this Public Inquiry are set as equals at the table. Support for a wider reach of Survivor insight, evidence, observations to feed into the representative panel, to inform the process.
A mechanism where decisions on policies and protocols affecting Survivors are being discussed by Survivors, Government, and others, together as a collegiate; where issues concerning this matter are being deliberated, where policies and protocols are being set out and agreed upon and where processes are designated for implementation and so forth, with Survivors at the centre, core to the deliberation.

Unmet needs, past and present
The unmet needs of thousands of children, over so many decades, are today the unmet needs of living Survivors, the unmeetable needs of those who for whatever reason, passed on, distressed to the last breath, they are the unmet needs of Ireland's children. 
Such an Inquiry will need access to the best tools of inquiry and facilities to carry on research where it is required to assess the full scale of the culture of harm and cover-up, mitigation and management - Survivors are the largest natural data bank before the Inquiry.

Clarity.

The combination of official, institutional records and the testimony and human geography of Survivors lived experience, from so many offers a level of historical clarity. 
Survivors needs in this Inquiry are clarity, honesty, transparency and accountability.

Survivors families needs in this Inquiry are clarity, honesty, transparency and accountability.
Ireland's needs in this Inquiry are clarity, honesty, transparency and accountability.
It is correct that the Inquiry settings, it's task and terms of reference be developed with adequate oversight by Survivors and their expert advocates.
Survivors are a diverse group of people and therefore generic approaches to 'survivors' as a body will fail to bring the necessary nuanced listening, the attention to detail, the willingness to hear and understand that would be required to represent this body accurately.  
Consulting via a poll of some survivors cannot not represent Survivors. 
A Survivors Panel ought to be enabled to represent Survivors, as soon as possible. 
Survivors must also be heard and understood, as who they are as a population, within the Legislature. 
This task is for the whole Government, it is not just a task for the Party in Government.
This task is also the task of the State, The Church, and the people of Ireland. 

Un-met needs
"There are things in a child's life that ought to happen and do not; and there are things in a child's life that ought not to happen, ever. To the extent these natural enough expectations are met or not, there is health or disruption of the child's life."

The unmet needs of the children each Survivor was, as they endured such vile mistreatment are alive, and as vital to this inquiry as are the unmet needs of the adult Survivors today.  
Both sets of needs live side by side. 
They must inform the Inquiry as to it's central task.
Those children needed the following. They needed someone to stop the predator. Someone to protect the child. Someone to hear the child's concerns, to allay any notion of guilt or shame, to assure the child that he or she is safe now, that this will never happen again, that the child will be safe into the future.

Someone, better still a loving community, who take robust action to prevent the identified predator(s) from ever engaging in such behaviour in society. Once is once too many times.
Those children needed some adults who cared deeply for them and whose care held the space for the child to return to a sense of safety, and thus to continue to grow and develop as a human person, maturing, part of  a healthy community, albeit wounded. Cared for, understood, loved albeit mortally wounded.   A single decision has a life long impact.
A culture of protection causes intergenerational retriggering because it delays the process of justice 
The original single vile predatory decision, re-iterated within an adversarial, protective culture. Trauma upon trauma, and the silence reverberates with silent cries amid continued harm. Life-long harm. 
Survivors need and deserve an honest, transparent Public Inquiry.

Ireland
Ireland really ought not allow this moment to pass, as other Public Inquiries into child abuse and institutions have - let us get it right this time, spot on. Let us not allow a repeat of processes that were somehow incomplete, that left lingering questions, processes that were less than transparent, processes that were adversarial, to have had institutions dictate to Survivors the task at hand, the terms of reference, often excluding Survivors from the key areas of decision making, by  a process of 'consulting'  with 'Survivors' at arms length (we did consult, and we took no notice).
Rather than through a direct deliberative engagement, as equals in those discussions, as part of the process.  That caused actual harm.
Survivors insights, lived experience, evidence and Survivors needs for accountability, justice, reparation and life support, have always been, still are and will always be critically important parts of this necessary process. 
Care must be taken. This work, this Inquiry must nurture Survivors. That's the outcome number one.
Because these are also the needs of Ireland's children. Unmet for decades, adult lives carry the cost of the silence. In pain. In loss. In grief. In terror. In shame. In horror. In self-loathing. In rage. In silence. In depression. In chronic disease. In addiction. In penury. Inconsolable.
Ireland needs to meet those needs, now.
"We cannot have peace without truth. Do the right thing," M. Markle, Actor

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Why Ireland needs a judicial public inquiry into historical child sexual predatory abuse within Boarding Schools, Day Schools.

Open letter to Irish Government, Churches and Media
~Why Ireland needs a judicial public inquiry into historical child sexual predatory abuse within Boarding Schools, Day Schools.

Clerical child abuse - an Irish timeline : Irish Times brief

As a child of Ireland, a ward of guardians, I was placed in five Irish Catholic boarding schools over a 11 year period, from 1966 through to 1977. 
A convent boarding school, an elite preparatory school, an Irish speaking school, a reformatory boarding school, another Irish speaking school.
I was subjected to predatory abuse within all these schools. I was utterly alone. I had no advocates, no protectors, I told no one. It was quite awful, all the time. I became habituated to that state. That was my normal. A child of Ireland. I fled Ireland aged 19.
I have endured the adverse effects of cPTSD for all my adult life.  I had always thought I was the problem. Shame, self loathing, narcissism, a tendency to be a bully, paranoia, sleep problems, always over compensating, never good enough. In my heart and mind, a darkness lurked. 
This has impacted all my adult relationships, adversely. I accept my part in all of that. I also understand the symptoms of years of chronic exposure to abuse as they present as behaviour. 
I am in counselling.
I know for sure that I am not an outlier, a unique and rare case. 
I was a child alone, as were so many others, who will remain countless until we find out how many were predated upon by men and women who got away with it, more or less, courtesy of the power of the Institutions.
Survivors deserve honesty, justice and reparation, support and recognition, kindness and respect.
This Inquiry could have been suggested in 1992.  There were already enough proven cases and allegations known to the Government of Ireland and to the Churches to justify same.
What harms have fallen upon survivors in the past 30 years, as a result?
Ireland, as a State and a people,  must avoid  repeating that failure to act in a timely manner.
We need a full Public Inquiry covering all State and Religious run schools across Ireland, where any allegations of predatory abuse have ever emerged since commencement of the State. 
We must start with judicial oversight, with open verified access to all religious order data and papers related to predatory abuse mandated, as a means to meet the needs of Survivors. 
The State and Institutions know what they knew. Survivors do not. That is an inequitable disparity. 
And that is the problem that only a Judicial Public Inquiry can resolve. Timely in this instance means complete the task, look at and appraise the full extent of the child predation, bullying, the violence and psychological abuse, hold accountable those who are accountable, make reparations and design a schooling system, a cultural environment that prevents all of that from ever happening again.
Every child of Ireland deserves nothing less than that, past and present.

Corneilius Crowley







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Open Letter to Media and Politicians in Ireland - Blackrock Boys

 A recent RTE Radio Documentary 'Blackrock Boys' brought up the story of clerical abuse of children in one of Irelands elite Boarding Schools.

https://www.rte.ie/radio/doconone/1333550-blackrock-boys

Alison O'Connor's article in The Examiner, 11th November speaks to this dreadful situation.

"Where to begin with a story that just never ends? It is almost 30 years ago since I, as a young journalist, first spoke to someone who had been sexually abused by a priest as a child.

Three decades on it has been honestly nauseating to listen, first, to the very fine RTÉ Doc on One, Blackrock Boys, and the subsequent horrific outpouring all week of other boys, now men, of their own abuse at the hands of clerics."

https://www.irishexaminer.com/opinion/columnists/arid-41003687.html

Vincent Healy, who took his case against the Spiritans to the courts in 2009, and won, as his case was proven, has been working as a Survivors advocate ever since.

 “I want answers from the State and religious congregations about the suffering of children who attended day schools, and only an inquiry can determine the numbers affected. The State has a responsibility to secure the welfare of students, but day-school students have been criminally neglected.

He added the State had been “belligerent towards people like me” and said “victims of abuse have been subjected to the rigours of the courts, criminal and civil”.

The sexual abuse of boys by Spiritan priests first came to public attention in Ireland in March 2009 when Fr Henry Maloney was convicted of abusing Mark Vincent Healy and Paul Daly, who died in June 2011, when both were pupils at St Mary’s College, Rathmines, between 1969 and 1973. Moloney was given a suspended sentence due to ill health and as he was already under strict supervision at the Spiritans’ Kimmage Manor in Dublin. He had been out of ministry and under supervision since 1996.

A second Spiritan priest accused by Mr Healy, Fr Arthur Carragher, died in Canada in January 2011. He taught at St Mary’s in 1969. In 2001 two brothers made abuse allegations against Fr Carragher but there is no extradition treaty between Ireland and Canada, where he then lived, and he successfully resisted being tried in Ireland. The priest later admitted abusing the brothers.

For decades the reaction of both The Spiritans and The Irish State has been to 'manage a crisis' of confidence, to maintain status quo of power in an adversarial manner that has prevented Survivors from a full accounting of the harms caused by predatory clerics and those who masked the abuse of children in their care.

The matter remains unresolved. A public Inquiry is necessary to resolve this situation.

Here follows an open letter I sent out today to Irish Media and politicians.

To the Editor, To members of the Irish Government, an open letter.

A Chara,

The recently aired RTE Radio documentary 'Blackrock Boys' tells a truly awful, tragic story. Two brothers, a few years apart, groomed, bullied and sexually assaulted by the same cleric, in the same school.  They were unable to tell their parents or each other. 

The institutions adversarial defence. Survivors in deep distress for decades. Family life disrupted for generations. A similar pattern took place in many other residential and day schools across Ireland. We do not yet know the full extent and scope of this pattern. That is why we need a Public Inquiry.

The RTE Documentary also speaks to the courage, the humility, the heart of Survivors and their advocates, who work  to hold accountable those who were and are responsible for the harms caused, be they  individuals, Religious or State institutions and other organisations.

The determination of Survivors and their advocates to proceed. in spite of an overtly adversarial dynamic, where the culpable parties attempt to mitigate their exposure to public accountability through various means, methods we are all too familiar, with is heroic.  

It can be said that genuine humane  courage is exemplified when those who have caused harm acknowledge the harm they have caused, admit the things done that prevented prevention, understand  that defensive behaviour by institutions and individuals has exacerbated adverse life long outcomes for those children so harmed, into adulthood,  and to honestly and transparently give a full accounting of what transpired, with a view to prevention, reparations and justice..

That is what Jesus would probably urge, is it not? Hold a full and honest accounting of the harms caused, and address the needs of Survivors.

Ireland is rated in international comparisons as the most helpful State in terms of global goodness.

Why is it that Ireland cannot reach that happy state for hundreds of thousands of it's own children who have been so deeply harmed?

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When we claim the Politicians are incompetent, I think we are trying to evade the truth.

When we, the people, claim the Politicians are incompetent, I think we and the politicians are trying to evade the truth.

The NeoLiberal Politicians are extremely able - indeed they are adept, experts, geniuses - at looting the taxpayer, and increasing wealth extraction. 

Whilst we - the ordinary worker and tax payer - are utterly incompetent in countering that, let alone preventing it.

The inability of Labour socially minded MPs to counter the disgusting abusive campaigns of slander, gaslighting, bullying by the Labour NeoLiberals within the party it self speaks to this truth.

We ordinary folk need to up our game. Big Time. Collectively.

How Bullying operates in Politics.

"Very few people, when put to the test, have the integrity and moral courage to stand up against bullying, harassment, abuse, threats and corruption. The targets of adult bullying are selected often because they DO have the moral courage to challenge; many people will pass by on the other side.

A target of adult bullying is most often chosen because of their strength, not their weakness. Research shows that targets of bullying tend to have highly developed empathy, and sensitivity for others, a high degree of perceptiveness, high moral values, a well-developed integrity, a strong sense of fair play and reasonableness, a low propensity to violence, a reluctance to pursue grievance, disciplinary or legal action, a strong forgiving streak and a mature understanding of the need to resolve conflict with dialogue. Often, targets of bullying are independent, self-reliant and “different” in some way. Weak people often disingenuously confuse these hallmarks of character with weakness.

Bullies aim to inflict psychological injury more often than physical injury. Their main aim is to control, discredit, isolate and eliminate their target.

The word “victim” also allows disingenuous people to tap into and stimulate other people’s misconceptions and prejudices of victimhood which include the inference that the person was somehow complicit in the abuse. (See just-world fallacy and victim-blame narrative). So I use the word “target”, which is also accurate because bullying involves the intentional singling out of a person for abuse.

Bullies, who have no integrity, are vindictive, aggressive, demanding, and regularly violate others’ boundaries; displaying aggression does not respect peoples’ rights, and a bully’s “requests” come with a negative consequence if the course of action demanded by the bully is declined. A bully’s bad behaviour is entirely his or her responsibility, they intend to cause their targets harm, to undermine them and damage them socially, emotionally, psychologically and sometimes, physically. And they often do.

Bullies typically isolate and dehumanise their targets in order to disempower them. It’s a key tactic of control used by all abusers, it can be particularly injuring, emotionally.

The major triggers for bullying come from the bully’s own sense of inadequacy, according to research. 

Feeling envious and threatened by others with competence, integrity and popularity, the bully will project onto them their own inadequacy and incompetence, and often the bully will use their own behaviours and thoughts, attributing them to their target, to rally support for their “cause”. The inadequacy or envy of a bully is often translated into negative language used intentionally to completely diminish the target’s positive qualities, socially.

Using unwarranted criticism and threats, the bully tries to control their target and subjugate them, without a thought for that persons’ contributions, reputation, well-being, health or self confidence. Sooner or later this person – the bully’s target – realises that they are not only being “managed” but bullied, and they will start to show signs of resistance to that. Often, anything said in the target’s self-defence will be distorted and used by the bully, too. Gaslighting involves attempts to either negate or redefine a target’s experiences, and abusers often use this method.

The bully often fears exposure of his/her own incompetence and inadequacy, and takes steps to disable the the target, typically by isolating them and/or destroying their credibility and reputation among peers and decision-makers, putting them out of the picture in the workplace through dismissal, forced resignation or even early retirement. Once the target has gone, within about two weeks, the bully’s focus turns to someone else and the cycle starts again.

Some people enjoy the sense of power and control that bullying others gives them.  

Online bullies aim to isolate the target, destroy their credibility and force them out of established communities and groups." 

This describes exactly what Brexit, and the anti-Corbyn campaign within Labour and across the News Media, did.

Source : https://politicsandinsights.org/2015/01/22/how-bullying-works-projection-and-scapegoating

This blog is essential reading for everyone who votes, and indeed for those who do not vote...  

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