Monday, 24 January 2011

David Smail on Depression in 1989

Here's an insightful video, of David Smail, speaking of depression and the woundedness of those who have suffered from circumstances not of their own making.







I urge everyone to view this, to listen carefully to the fullness of what David says. His words are dense with meaning, with empathy and understanding.

Note especially that he says the most sensitive are often the most perceptive. The wounded see Society for what it really is. They are more wounded because of that perceptual ability.

This piece of video was made in 1989, during the height of the Thacherite years... and it has special resoance for these times of 'austerity' for the distressed and wounded, and bonuses for the wealthy....

This video outlines what Alice Miller has shown to be the dynmaics of abuse that are most common, that underpin much of the Dominant Cultures realities, the things that do harm, the kinds of adults those who have not faced their childhood woundings who later inflict those same woundings on others.







This is not to excuse those who cause serious harm, but to understand the dynamics of intergenerational abuse patterns.

Tony Blair can only get away with what he has done, David Cameron is getting away with what he is doing, because so many of us are wounded, blocked and in denial about the nature of our Society.


We must face these truths in order to change the patterns.

Remember what Judith Herman wrote:

"The ordinary response to atrocities is to banish them from consciousness. Certain violations of the social compact are too terrible to utter aloud: this is the meaning of the word unspeakable.

Atrocities, however, refuse to be buried. Equally as powerful as the desire to deny atrocities is the conviction that denial does not work. Folk wisdom is filled with ghosts who refuse to rest in their graves until their stories are told.

Remembering and telling the truth about terrible events are prerequisites both for the restoration of the social order and for the healing of individual victims.”

Kindest regards

Corneilius

Do what you love, it's Your Gift to Universe





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2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Could you write a song about District Attorneys/Child Services/Judges covering up the Crimes of the Roman Catholic Clergy that hurt our defensesless youth worldwide.

corneilius said...

I have done. Two songs that refer to the cover up.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g1MQmc44f3g - stop what you are doing

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ppgCK4hwJcA - natural children

In all your work, I see plenty of demands for accountability. That is fine as far as it goes. Absolutely neccessary, of course. You are to be commended for this.

I work on the roots of the problem, across Society, I work on prevention, because I know from experience that addressing symptoms alone ensures that the problem persists. Together, we all can complete the picture.